Sbenny.com is trusted by Hey guys, so a while back I was asking for suggestions what to do if someone like me who is socially awkward beyond measure and just really shy in general can confress to his crush (her name is Jessica btw). Before asking for advice here I asked my literally only friend (aside from Jess) and he told me the same thing like people here, just man up and tell her.
And that was the problem, I see myself as someone who is just loser. I hate violence (I mean in reality, I like videogames), I get nervous really easily and instead of complaining about something I just take it and try not to cause problems (like that one time when I was ordering some quick meal at fast food and my order wad messed up, but I didnt say anything because I didnt know WHAT to say).
But opportunity came when I was asked by my teacher to help with something after school (I am kinda liked by teachers, I don't cause problems and my grades are good) and I found out she was asked the same, so we were there alone and I just want and said it and boy those 15 seconds in silence were killing me. To my very much unexpected surprise she said she likes me too, I wish I could have seen my own face because that was probably the first thing in my life that went the way I actually wanted.
I found out she started liking me few months back only, quite a gap when i consider how long I liked her before actually telling her.
So yeah, I have a girlfriend now, and I had my first kiss.
I just want to thank the people that posted their suggestions when I asked here on Sbenny, I love it here really much.
That brings me to another issue, I don't know how to actually act, like where to take her on dates or something, do you have suggestions for that? And once again thanks, my confidence actually rose up.
And that was the problem, I see myself as someone who is just loser. I hate violence (I mean in reality, I like videogames), I get nervous really easily and instead of complaining about something I just take it and try not to cause problems (like that one time when I was ordering some quick meal at fast food and my order wad messed up, but I didnt say anything because I didnt know WHAT to say).
But opportunity came when I was asked by my teacher to help with something after school (I am kinda liked by teachers, I don't cause problems and my grades are good) and I found out she was asked the same, so we were there alone and I just want and said it and boy those 15 seconds in silence were killing me. To my very much unexpected surprise she said she likes me too, I wish I could have seen my own face because that was probably the first thing in my life that went the way I actually wanted.
I found out she started liking me few months back only, quite a gap when i consider how long I liked her before actually telling her.
So yeah, I have a girlfriend now, and I had my first kiss.
I just want to thank the people that posted their suggestions when I asked here on Sbenny, I love it here really much.
That brings me to another issue, I don't know how to actually act, like where to take her on dates or something, do you have suggestions for that? And once again thanks, my confidence actually rose up.
just wow ! 
