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Martinj69

Novice Lv1️⃣
Member for 6 years
Hello there . I'm just gonna dive straight in . I had a crush on a good friend of mine for a while . One day I confessed to her, but she said she doesn't want a new relationship . Then, a few weeks after, another friend of mine (male), told me he had a crush on her as well, but he did not know about mine . I played it off thinking that he would get the same response . A few months after they grew closer and slowly she started to ignore me. Now they're in an actual relationship and I'm completely heartbroken . I need advice on how to let go, without jeopardizing our relationship as friends . Please help .
 

TrinDy

Novice Lv1️⃣
Member for 7 years
It will hurt for a while but do not worry. That pain you are feeling will soon subside with time. Just be happy knowing that you still get to be with her. Another important thing I will say is, do not succumb to jealousy or hatred because that will only worsen and distance your friendship with each other.
I like someone too, but after I realized that they were in a relationship with another person I was heartbroken, but I still hang out with them because I will always be thankful for the relationship I have with them even if it wasn't what I truly wanted.
Hang in there. You got this. I hope my advice helped and made you feel better😊
 
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